I don’t understand anything she says.
- My Dad
HI, I'M IDA | PERSONAL + RELATIONAL COACH
weekly unsolicited relationship advice
from a single girl you definitely should not take.
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welcome to don't take advice from a single girl.
your new go-to relationship column on love, heartbreak, and everything in between.
we do “advice” a little differently around here…
our goal is not self-empowerment (let’s face it, our modern world could use a break from personal development and individualism - insert eye rolling emoji).
the new hot thing?
radical relational awareness and empowerment, unraveling patriarchal conditioning, creating deeper connections within and without, and having a damn good time while we do it.
casual, right!?Â
what will you learn here?
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…think inner child workÂ
but more like a chaotic clusterfuck of children on a playground… a few big bad bullies, some crying in the corner, and older siblings pretending to be adults who have no business doing so and respectfully, are making it worse)...
- …along with relational awareness
(think self-awareness but in a relationship, because spoiler alert: it's not just about you)
This column offers a holistic, no bullshit view of your relationships to others and yourself.
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WHO THE F. DOES SHE THINK SHE IS?
hi, i'm ida.
first of all - those three little letters, I can't let you go without telling you... we pronounce it: eee-da.
got it? good. let's move on.
i'm a storyteller and published author (link to the thing), designer and aesthetic fiend, Internal Family Systems (that’s therapy!) and Relational Life Therapy (that’s couples' coaching) practitioner, and inner-world guide.
i'm a joker, smoker, midnigh- wait, wrong one.
i'm a relational coach, a word slut, and an unconventional feminist.
WAYS TO WORK WITH ME
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Through our work together, Ida has given me the ultimate gift of gratitude, and the courage to traverse parts of my person I didn’t know were there, and the ability to parent and love myself to my fullest abilities. She is a true healer, wise beyond measure, and a safe space I look forward to seeing as she continues to help me on my path of embracing my highest and wisest self.
- Sarah B.
Most if not all of my parts rejected me at first, as I had actively spent my life in a state of denial, compartmentalization, and avoidance. Over time - through Ida’s guidance and massive amount of patience - she aided me in accessing my higher self. I started to learn to trust myself, see the beauty within myself and within each one of my parts. Ida helped me sit with each part and the hurt they carried. I’ve never felt so secure in my life, or had such a healthy relationship with myself and am forever grateful for Ida’s constant guidance and wisdom.
- Nicole S.
She helped me not only see and acknowledge what we deemed “the rage monster within”, but to really see and acknowledge the, “caged and neglected inner warrior within” for the first time. Ida’s craft was subtle, gentle, and kind. She makes you feel seen and understood. She’ll shine her light and tools in all the right places, so that you can find yours. My advice: book her NOW. You’ll be glad you did.
- Stefan D.
Working with Ida is the wake-up call I (probably should have, but didn’t) know I needed. She’s a caring but firm guide who helps you see your shortcomings and teaches you the skills to get out of your own way. I went from feeling confused and not good enough to self-empowered and WAY more self-aware. Life changing is an understatement. Do yourself a favour and book the discovery call.
- Anastasia B.
